Retract the Claws and Join the Village Ladies7:48 AM
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\Retract the Claws Ladies
So, I reach out to all of you as women. Bring in those cat claws. Clip them, gnaw them off, or just play nice if you can, but for goodness sake, please try to be more supportive of your fellow women and mothers. Just because you prefer to calmly talk your child out of situations as a form of discipline does not mean it is the only method that can be used or would even be effective on someone else's child. Or, if you choose to spank within your legal rights as a parent, it does not automatically make you abusive, but does not mean that everyone who doesn't spank is raising lazy unruly children.
We all know the hot topics. From breastfeeding vs. bottle feeding, from homeschooling to public schooling. The list is endless for the things that moms can find to criticize and tear each other down about. I read an article on a popular site the other day on one of these hot topics and the comments just made me tired. Instead of fighting, arguing and picking each other apart, which takes time and energy away from our families, can't we choose to join the village and support each other? After all, it does take a village to raise a child does it not? I think our country has gotten away from that ideal, but I can remember when neighbors would look out for me and I would answer to them the same as I would my mom. It was a better time. When did the cat fights and the "I'm right, your wrong" mentality become so prevalent. Are we 5?
Parenting is a long and often confusing journey that we all stumble through the best we can. Even those who think they have it all figured out can be hit by the unexpected, so let's put the claws away ladies and play nice.